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I also had two men in the last year who were deperately trying to get me to commit sooner than seemed normal.

They were controlling and basically losers in past relationships and life in general. My assessment was that they wanted a healthy normal person to validate their craziness.

What I learned from carrying out an interview of a female and the interview of a male trying to dig into this intriguing subject was that using the Internet for dating is equally painful for men and for women, but for very different reasons.

The two services used by these individuals were OKCupid and Match.com, two of the largest and most popular dating websites on the Internet.

The problem with online dating is that you can’t see the person’s face when they’re telling you about themselves. I think it’s hard for guys to comprehend the world of online dating from a woman’s perspective. They then flippantly toss out all of those well thought out, carefully crafted messages from most of those poor schmucks, and then they log onto their Facebook accounts to complain to their girlfriends that there are no “good men” left in the world.

You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.

I told her that because I liked her so much, I didn’t want to get scared off by her intensity.

Class act that she was, she took it in stride, and we remained friends for years after dating.

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